As a result of an article on Burnout, in Vroue Keur (see article), I was invited to do an interview for Radio Namaqualand on 2nd November 2009. The programme was called "Hoe Nou Gemaak?" ("What do I do now?"). The interview was so well received that it was rebroacast twice.
Radio Namaqualand is a community radio station based in the Northern Cape, South Africa. The listeners are Afrikaans speaking, and so the interviewer asked me the questions in Afrikaans, but I answered him in English. (To help you understand what I am answering, I have wriiten down the questions in English. Read them as you listen).
Afrikaans questions translated into English
Is burn - out something that is quite prevalent and therefore something that you see in your consulting rooms often?
Are burn-out and depression the same?
Is burn-out mainly restricted to one of the sexes?
Well, we must be honest, we men cannot multi-task so well...
Are persons from certain age groups and race more prone to burn-out?
What exactly leads to burn-out?
Is it only at work? Can it be a combination of home, work, church, everything?
Well, this is a good start, how does one recognise the symptoms of burn-out?
Is it true that when you experience burn-out you also have a tendency to forget things? Is this one of the symptoms?
I also understand that burn-out has certain phases. Please can you take us through the phases
It is very interesting that you start the phases with the honeymoon phase. The honeymoon phase is something we all experience when we get into a new position, but as we progress we lose our enthusiasm. Is this the case for burn-out?
Don’t you think that the circumstances of certain jobs contribute to burn-out? For example a person sees that their colleagues are not pulling their weight and then think “I must work harder” to compensate for the sake of the company. Could that contribute to burn-out?
In the case of somebody going through these phases of burn-out, is there something physiological happening? Is there an emotion perhaps, a tingling of the skin? I am asking this because of something I personally experienced 8 years ago when I felt my internal organs starting to convulse and immediately afterwards I collapsed. It was burn-out. Is it always like, or is that not a prerequisite?
At that same time a good friend of mine went to the bathroom and 2 days later he woke up in hospital – he “hit the wall” as you would say. Does this usually happen with people – that they just implode, similar to getting a heart attack? Do people experience it differently? (The hitting of the wall)
You are making a very important point. The person going through burn-out may not necessarily say “help me”, but rather friends and family, concerned people, will refer them to someone (a professional). Therefore it is important to maintain a close family involvement. Family should certainly be saying: “Mom, Dad, Friend, you must now go for help.”
Can a person experiencing burn-out help him or herself or must they go for professional help?
Is there healing for such persons and is medication necessary?
Do support groups play an important role on the road to recovery?
Can suicidal thoughts occur in a person’s life during burn-out?
...but also bearing in mind that you often get religious people who say: “I am going to read my bible and pray more”. Is this a solution for the physical problem they are experiencing at that moment? It can also cause more tension. Can you answer both these questions at the same time?
Have you any tips to help a person prevent burn-out?